Every Wednesday, I take a hula class from hula kumu Mapuana De Silva. I take the class because I love to dance, but also to help me better understand Hawai'i--the history, the language, and the culture.
Throughout my training, I've been focusing on gracefulness which is so integral to hula. Even when the song has a fast beat and the movements are difficult, the dancers are always supposed to smile and move in a flowing manner, without appearing to rush. At first, I had expected that trying to be graceful in addition to moving my body in the right directions at the right time would make dancing more complicated. Instead, I've discovered that focusing on being graceful makes dancing easier.
What does this have to do with design or business? Well, especially with working in Hawai'i, I strive to be as full of grace when I'm working as I am when I'm dancing. I know from experience that for many people working in say, Washington DC, that if you're not stressed out, then other people don't think that you're taking your job seriously. But here, on the islands, there is a popular bumper sticker: "Slow Down, this ain't the Mainland." The bumper sticker is a reference to driving, but it applies to the rest of life too. Things flow at a slower pace here. For example, I've found showing up 15 minutes early for meetings is too early, because often my client is still eating lunch or simply isn't ready until they're ready. That's not an excuse for slacking off or being lazy (I still arrive on time), it's a different perspective. It's a way of moving through life with more ease and peace, because it means your day can unfold by flowing from one thing to the next, instead of running around frantically trying to always go faster and faster. And living with grace makes it easier to remember to smile. =)